ssh from docker container on arm64 macos ventura to same mac (docker host) fails, ERROR: SSH handshake failed. #1313

Describe the bug
A clear and concise description of what the bug is.

I am using apache guacamole, in a docker container, built from here
https://github.com/jwetzell/docker-guacamole

with an ssh connection defined to connecto this same mac.

I added ping and the ssh client to the docker image and can exec in and ping and command line ssh to the docker host without issue,
so its not a connection issue. there was a problem before 1.11 with aes-gcm on macos..
changelog
Adds support for AES-GCM crypto protocols

connect from an AMD64 to and AMD docker host (same machine) works ok..

To Reproduce

build a docker container for arm64, macos sonoma 14.0
http access the docker mapped guacamole port , login , use settings to create an ssh connection to this same mac.
exit setting, the click on the ssh connection you just made, tries to connect, then fails

the guacamole log presents the error above.

A recipe or example code that reproduces the problem? A stack trace from a crash

Expected behavior
expect ssh session to work

Version (please complete the following information):

• OS and version: [e.g. iOS, macOS, Windows, Linux (distro)]
  macos sonoma arm (m1 processor) v 14.0
• libssh2 version: [e.g. 1.10.0]
  libssh 1.11.0
• crypto backend and version: [OpenSSL, mbedTLS, Libgcrypt, LibreSSL, WinCNG, OS400, wolfSSL, None]
  uses openssl

see Dockerfile.arm from repo linked above

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